Thalonius Govender's autobiography

  Here’s the revised version with correct apostrophes  My grade 3 teacher, Miss Martins, was right about me: I really am the loneliest boy in the world. She might have been joking when she said it, but here I am, years later, wondering if I’ve been walking around with a sign on my forehead that says, “Intriguing but perpetually misunderstood.” And that’s the thing. being lonely isn’t about not meeting people; it’s about not being understood. It’s never been a struggle to find girls interested in me. I guess my brain intrigues them. I get asked questions like, “How do you know that?” or the classic, “Do you have a computer in your head?” And yet, here I am, swiping on Tinder and watching the matches roll in, wondering why it still doesn’t work out. The problem isn’t the initial connection; it’s what comes next. There seem to be two types of girls I meet: the ones who are overly sexually aggressive (which freaks me out) and the ones who can’t quite grasp my sense of humor. Playf...

I love fish the most especially mackerel but browned beef is another flavour powerhouse. This method works for any cut of steak but my favourite is picanha also known as rump cap which usually has a nice layer of fat you can crispen while cooking.because it’s rump I find picanhahas a lovely beefy flavour however fillet iis most tender and almost melts in the mouth however it must have a sauce to pair it because I find it doesn’t have much flavour by itself. If you’re trying steak for the first time I’d recommend a fillet with a pepper or garlic sauce for a good time prep simply involves taking the steak out of the fridge to get to room temperature before salting generously with flaky sea salt, any salt will work but i love sea salt.and allowing to stand for at least an hour before going onto your grill or pan, this step is most important and is a lessonfrom heston blumenthal and it serves the dual purpose of seasoning and tenderising. coat the steak with oil(optional but i find it help...

vs one of scarcity

I consider love to be a renewable resource. What does it say about us. The things we do. They can all be sourced back to our first priority. Our families. Recognize it when you receive love, love is sustained more easily when acknowledged. My problem has always been how quickly I fall in love with people. Not sure if I'm neurodiverse but a feeling that strong is scary. And it really is powerful, it powers every person who breaks their backs to provide.